Once you can come into your own and really choose to participate in your life you are more likely to open up to attract someone special. Sure you will attract others, others that will fulfil the old beliefs about you, who will tempt you to remain in the old state of being and continue on with the old patterns in relationships, but, by being more aware, you can then choose. You can be conscious of staying in past patterns, or moving into something truly inspiring, to really be there for yourself and have a partner that truly shows up for you! There are always tests for us along the way to see if we truly have shifted our patterns, our state of consciousness, and really embodied the knowing that we deserve the best. Once we have embodied this, we will attract a relationship that is not based on need and a search for something because it is lacking within. Instead it becomes a relationship based on love, something that resonates from a higher vibration.

So what does this mean in practice?

1.     First practise loving yourself and attending to your needs so you don’t need someone to attend to you, but rather attract someone who can be there for you, to enhance you. You don’t need someone to rescue you; you have reclaimed yourself first and foremost so you can now claim a fulfilling relationship.

2.     Connect to and release old limiting beliefs and patterns. Feel them in the body and breathe them out.

3.     Consciously put into practice new ways of taking action, ones that reinforce a new way of being. Understand that if you are seeing old patterns and beliefs being reinforced then you are sabotaging. Embody these new ways of being. Feel them in your body. Visualise the new you taking action and connect with each sense in doing so. Use every sense to truly know these new experiences. Smell the perfume/cologne, hear your confident voice, see your actions, and truly connect as though it is happening now.

4.     Take one step towards becoming the new you each day and reinforcing these new beliefs. Open up to the abundance in you, loving yourself completely, knowing yourself completely and showing this to the world. Then you will ultimately attract someone magical. You won’t need to be rescued. You can have a balanced caring relationship, a true spiritual partnership based on love, compassion, honesty, commitment or what you desire. You are enough for any man or woman. You are truly showing up. You are taking action to satisfy yourself so that your partner will be truly satisfied and inspired by who you are – you are more than enough. There is now no need for excuses. There is someone out there who will reflect a mirror image of that divine love that you have accessed within and are prepared to let shine. So shine your light and be a beacon for a divine spiritual union.

Fiona Om Shanti is a transformational coach, sound healer, art therapist, psychologist, author and practitioner of Tibetan medicine. She inspires people to awaken to their potential.

Fiona Om Shanti

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